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+6helencbradshaw Sam_Garland spoilt_little_brat WormThatTurned koshkha fizzywizzy 10 posters |
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fizzywizzy
Number of posts : 728 Age : 52 Registration date : 2006-10-26
| Subject: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Fri 08 Jun 2007, 16:07 | |
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koshkha
Number of posts : 1091 Age : 59 Location : Northants & S. Cheshire - depends on the day of the week Registration date : 2006-08-17
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Fri 08 Jun 2007, 17:23 | |
| I think castration/neutering depending on gender might be much cheaper and more satisfying. | |
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WormThatTurned
Number of posts : 1105 Age : 50 Location : Kettering Registration date : 2006-09-14
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Fri 08 Jun 2007, 17:33 | |
| - koshkha wrote:
- I think castration/neutering depending on gender might be much cheaper and more satisfying.
I think your joking I hope your joking | |
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koshkha
Number of posts : 1091 Age : 59 Location : Northants & S. Cheshire - depends on the day of the week Registration date : 2006-08-17
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Fri 08 Jun 2007, 18:43 | |
| I will have to leave you wondering! | |
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spoilt_little_brat
Number of posts : 1427 Age : 38 Location : Conisbrough nr Doncaster Registration date : 2006-02-28
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Fri 08 Jun 2007, 19:56 | |
| I don't really see how this would do any good?! Yeah they would look really bad, but it doesn't get the child/ mother any money!! | |
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fizzywizzy
Number of posts : 728 Age : 52 Registration date : 2006-10-26
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Fri 08 Jun 2007, 21:31 | |
| And who would they look bad to? Who would bother even logging on to have a look? | |
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Sam_Garland
Number of posts : 769 Age : 37 Registration date : 2006-06-24
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Fri 08 Jun 2007, 21:36 | |
| Yeah, seems a bit strange. Surely just forcing the parent to pay their child support would be a far more active and satisfying course of action. | |
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WormThatTurned
Number of posts : 1105 Age : 50 Location : Kettering Registration date : 2006-09-14
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Fri 08 Jun 2007, 21:39 | |
| - fizzywizzy wrote:
- And who would they look bad to? Who would bother even logging on to have a look?
Thats the top and bottom of it. | |
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spoilt_little_brat
Number of posts : 1427 Age : 38 Location : Conisbrough nr Doncaster Registration date : 2006-02-28
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Fri 08 Jun 2007, 21:46 | |
| They would only look bad to the people who logged on to look, but like you said, who would?!? | |
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helencbradshaw
Number of posts : 1982 Age : 56 Location : Here, There and Everywhere, but usually in a hotel somewhere Registration date : 2006-03-18
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Fri 08 Jun 2007, 23:08 | |
| a ridiculous waste of effort. | |
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Ziggy!
Number of posts : 524 Registration date : 2007-06-04
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Sat 09 Jun 2007, 00:56 | |
| If women are more emancipated and career driven now will they be named and shamed for not paying half...I always felt the CSA was anti men anyway. If 9 out of ten women automatically get awarded custody of the kids its inviteable that more men will have not paid up than women. | |
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atticusuk
Number of posts : 1972 Location : Northampton Registration date : 2006-03-08
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Sat 09 Jun 2007, 01:03 | |
| Happy for them to name and shame non payers provided they also name and shame those individuals who break contact orders and deny absent parents the right to see their children, they should then also name and shame the chicken *Bad Word* judges who fail to enforce orders once they are broken and not use the full extent of the law available to them. | |
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spoilt_little_brat
Number of posts : 1427 Age : 38 Location : Conisbrough nr Doncaster Registration date : 2006-02-28
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Sat 16 Jun 2007, 18:22 | |
| I read today that they are also thinking of charging mothers a £200 fine if they do not put a father down on the birth cert', just so that it is easier to get child support of fathers in the future. | |
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sugarnspice
Number of posts : 152 Registration date : 2006-03-07
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Sat 16 Jun 2007, 18:56 | |
| The child support dodgers should in reality feel a massive sense of personal shame for failing to provide for their offspring. This shame alone should be enough to give them a kick up the arse and make them pay up. If they feel no shame for abandoning parental responsability then what difference will it make to name them? Naming them may shame the kids, it may shame the ex-partner, it may shame many many more family members. Just who are they supposed to be naming and shaming here? | |
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dididave
Number of posts : 637 Registration date : 2006-03-01
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Sun 17 Jun 2007, 14:51 | |
| - sugarnspice wrote:
- The child support dodgers should in reality feel a massive sense of personal shame for failing to provide for their offspring. This shame alone should be enough to give them a kick up the arse and make them pay up. If they feel no shame for abandoning parental responsability then what difference will it make to name them? Naming them may shame the kids, it may shame the ex-partner, it may shame many many more family members. Just who are they supposed to be naming and shaming here?
Precisely, naming them does nothing. Ensuring they actually pay is the way forward and not a bloody pittance because they have exaggerated there bills either (talking from experience). | |
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atticusuk
Number of posts : 1972 Location : Northampton Registration date : 2006-03-08
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Sun 17 Jun 2007, 16:47 | |
| Naming and shaming was only one of the options though, more effective things like taking the passport or driving licennse would be more effective.
I like the idea that both parties should be on the birth certificate as it helps establish parental rights, it is rediculous that at present the mther can choose not to have the fathers name on the certificate, often for purely petty reasons or self interest rather than being in the best interest of the child. | |
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spoilt_little_brat
Number of posts : 1427 Age : 38 Location : Conisbrough nr Doncaster Registration date : 2006-02-28
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Sun 17 Jun 2007, 19:23 | |
| I cant understand why (unless in situations like rape etc) mothers would not want a fathers name down! In my opinion that would look worse on the mother and isn't very nice for the child when they are older. | |
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atticusuk
Number of posts : 1972 Location : Northampton Registration date : 2006-03-08
| Subject: Re: Child support - is naming and shaming the answer? Sun 17 Jun 2007, 21:55 | |
| They talk about it could cause embarressment to the mother, I guess if she does not know who it is or the child was as a result of an affair then it may cause some shame but then if you know this will happen perhaps people would be a bit more responsible. | |
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